What Turned You On Today?

What Turned You On Today?

For those familiar with brain principles, neuroscientists have identified that our brains know how to do one of these two things very well: avoid pain or seek pleasure. As humans, we have always pursued pleasure as an essential part of our survival, devoting time and resources to get what we want. And it is important we understand it so we can make the right choices.

What turns us on varies from person to person and most societal systems have tried to moderate “certain pleasures” with laws and systems. In many cases, it has not worked. Why? One very good reason is the fact that pleasure is hard-wired in all of us.

Latest findings reveal that a small group of regions inside the brain called the pleasure circuit is where pleasure “lives”. Some of these regions are: the amygdala, the VTA (ventral tegmental area), the pituitary gland and the nucleus accumbens.

Author David Linden, a professor of Neuroscience from John Hopkins University in America has studied how the anatomy of pleasure works and how easily addictions can develop if we allow our cells, molecules and chemicals to go wild.

For example, in the case of drugs, they activate the reward system in the brain as much as many other things that cause us pleasure. So, the question is… how can we manage what gives us pleasure in a conscious way so they do not become addictions.

As the well-known motivation speaker, Anthony Robbins once said:

The secret of living a successful life is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you're in control of your life. If you don't, life controls you.

So what are some of the things that we can learn from the science of pleasure?

  • Humans perform basic activities that are rewarding to our brains such as eating, drinking and mating. Thanks to this, we are able to survive and procreate.
  • The brain’s circuits of pleasure become activated in the same way by both virtue and vice (ranging from orgasm, sweets, fatty acids, exercise, prayer, social approval, drugs or donating to charity).
  • What makes pleasure compelling is that these circuits are interconnected with other brain regions creating memories, associations, emotions and social meaning to the things we find rewarding.
  • Pleasure is fundamental to our well-being and it is now being explored and understood with the help of neuroscience.


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Silvia Damiano

Founder & CEO - About my Brain Institute

Award-winning leadership expert, scientist, educator, author, filmmaker, speaker, coach and creator of the i4 Neuroleader™ Model & Methodology.

Silvia Damiano’s scientific background and deep curiosity about the human brain led her into years of research exploring how people actually think, decide and act, not in theory, but in the moments where it counts.

Silvia's work sits at the intersection of neuroscience and human behaviour, focused on what happens under pressure, in relationships and through change. Over time, this evolved into a clear direction, helping people understand themselves with enough precision to lead, adapt and move forward with intention.

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